2012-01-12

ladyvyola: a drawing of a 1930's butler serving a seated young woman, captioned "Vyola" (elegant)
2012-01-12 08:45 pm

One must know one's limits

From Chapter Forty-Two - Gracious Living Without Servants

"It is obviously impossible for a woman doing all her own work and tending several nursery-age children to conduct her home on the same lines as her neighbor does who employs both cook and butler and whose half-grown children are away at boarding school."

p. 380, Amy Vanderbilt's Complete Guide to Etiquette: A Guide to Gracious Living, copyright 1952, 1954